We guess you’ve come to this page as you think your partner has come to see us, or maybe you’ve found one of our phone numbers on their phone, or this web site on their browser history. We will never discuss whether a client has been to see us or not.

The vast majority of our clients, who tell us that they have a partner, love their partners tremendously. They have no wish to hurt or leave them, but feel that there are issues or something missing and coming here may be part of how they cope. Some people find it tremendously difficult to discuss these things or to express their needs and desires. This may be true for you too. It may be that things are not right because you’re not happy or feel unsatisfied. Perhaps intimacy has only ever meant one thing and that’s of no interest any more.  We encourage intimacy in lots of ways. The majority of people who see us are male so at this point, assuming your are female, you may have had difficulty with orgasms, your partner may not have given you the time and attention you need or realised that touch, a look, a smile, a hug, of course foreplay, and recognising your needs are equally important, if not more so. Men are – we would both agree – simpler creatures as far as intimacy goes, and can be guilty of thinking women are the same but it doesn’t have to be that way for either sex.

We often get the impression that clients open up to us, but probably haven’t said the same things to their partners. Communication is key. Intimacy is also key but shouldn’t just mean sex . If you can, talk to them, and talk about sex and what intimacy means to you or where you are unhappy. Maybe there is something that can be changed. Maybe talking to us or seeing us would help you too. We will help if we can. And if you wanted both of you to come and see us, together, that would be great.